Sorry you had such a bad time with OpenBSD. It isn't top of the heap when it comes to performance but there are benefits that balance it out.
On the Linux front, I've been using Void and it has been pretty fantastic. Runit is the default init. It is a more hands-on distro (think Arch 10 years ago), but it's fast, slim, and doesn't have systemd.
On the Linux front, I've been using Void and it has been pretty fantastic. Runit is the default init. It is a more hands-on distro (think Arch 10 years ago), but it's fast, slim, and doesn't have systemd.